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Post by Farnley Kombu on May 12, 2007 17:07:51 GMT -5
Well, this person keeps PMing me, saying I am rude and mean and unkind. Am I?
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Post by Saiki on May 12, 2007 17:14:25 GMT -5
I don't think so at all!
Why are they PMing you, anyway? Was it an out of the blue "You're mean" PM, or are they calling you mean because you wouldn't give up your things for them? *rolls eyes at beggars*
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Post by Farnley Kombu on May 12, 2007 17:20:24 GMT -5
No, it was because their friend posted in a thread of mine, trying to help me out. She told me the thread should not be on the site, then did what she advised and deleted the post. Then the next day (today) her friend PMed me, saying that I was rude to her, and I still don't understand why. *rolls eyes* Now she's just making me mad.
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Post by krissie1234uk25 on May 12, 2007 17:20:36 GMT -5
Of course you're not mean! Ignore them and ask them to stop PMing you if they are being so rude, they're probably just jealous anyway.
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Post by Saiki on May 12, 2007 17:27:36 GMT -5
If they take that much offense at something you didn't even do, then that's a little scary. Can you block them or report them?
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Post by Farnley Kombu on May 12, 2007 17:27:40 GMT -5
Thanks Krissie and Saiki Well, she banned me from PMing her, because she was being rude *confuesd face* Well, at least I don't have to deal with her anymore. She really uset me though, by putting me down so much. I do admit I was being rude after she PMed me for a while, but that's just because she was really angering me. She said I didn't know anything about her friend, and really just being plain out mean.
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Post by krissie1234uk25 on May 12, 2007 17:36:25 GMT -5
Some people seem to enjoy putting others down in this way. Don't let it affect you though! A stranger who says you are mean does not compare to the amount of people in the Valley who think you are wonderful and nice and friendly and completely NOT mean.
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Post by Saiki on May 12, 2007 17:39:34 GMT -5
o.0
...It's very interesting how their mind thinks.
At least you had self-control to not freak out. I probably would have blown up immediately.
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Post by Farnley Kombu on May 12, 2007 17:46:10 GMT -5
Lol, thanks, Sai Thanks for the support guys, I went from a frown to a smile -
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Post by chelle on May 12, 2007 17:46:36 GMT -5
Farnley if it is on this site and it continues contact me and I will take care of it. There is no reason for anyone to continue to harass you after the MODs have made it clear that you have done nothing wrong.
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Post by Farnley Kombu on May 12, 2007 17:47:40 GMT -5
Will do Chelle
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Post by PandaLover on May 14, 2007 20:28:43 GMT -5
Oh my gosh. Farnely, you are one of the nicest people I have know - no, have the pleasure of- no, that's not right either. *Thinks really hard, then snaps fingers* Got it! You are one of the nicest people I have the honor of knowing. That person - whoever "that person" is - is totally clueless. And besides, think about it. Someone is being rude - so do you:
a) PM them, telling them they are rude. b) Just leave it be. If they're really being rude, either report them, or just ignore it. A MOD will get around to it.
I chose b. Think about it! I mean, PMing them telling them they are being rude is being rather rude in itself. If anyone's being rude, it was them.
(And that was really, really nice of you, Chelle. ;D)
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