Cheshiresneer
Juvenile Pykiin
~Ahazu; the sly yet strong~
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Post by Cheshiresneer on May 6, 2007 21:26:30 GMT -5
I am so FURIOUS! I JUST get back from the hospital, IM sick to begin with, thankfully just with a cold. I come back home and my father decides to lay into me for bull---- and I wanted to kick him! My fiance is out, I feel awful and have had nothing but my father yelling at me for the most RETARDED things all day. I JUST got home and I have all this AP CRAP to do and I have to wake up early tommorow for class, and I cant see my fiance ALL of this week except wednesday, and Im stuck at home instead of at his house with the child that my mother and father tell me how to riase, Which I know is just being helpful but there is a ceratin point in time where I want to scream. "MY CHILD BACK OFF!" I didn't see Levi all weekend (my fiance) and Im close to screaming my head off.
Now I know this isn't any of your problems, and that you really shouldn't even care. But Im warning you...I have had no sleep, Im sick miserable from lack of fiance and hospital issues which we wont get into. comforting best friend since her mom died from breast cancer recently. Im on a short fuse. I am extremely irritable and probably wont be on much. -hugs and fumes-
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Cheshiresneer
Juvenile Pykiin
~Ahazu; the sly yet strong~
Posts: 235
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Post by Cheshiresneer on May 6, 2007 21:27:45 GMT -5
ok, now that that little rant made me feel better.... I love you guys. -huggs bigtime- sorry im a loser and Im never on...
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Post by PandaLover on May 6, 2007 21:33:20 GMT -5
I'm so sorry! I hope you have as best a week possible. And that really stinks that your dad is yelling at you right when you get out of the hospital of all places! And you're not a loser. And you're not "never on", you are sometimes and it's loads of fun when you are! And we don't blame you for the time you're not on. ;D Don't stress. It seriously won't help. I should know.
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Cheshiresneer
Juvenile Pykiin
~Ahazu; the sly yet strong~
Posts: 235
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Post by Cheshiresneer on May 6, 2007 21:47:58 GMT -5
-takes deep breath- thats really the sweetest thing Ive heard all day Panda. -snuggles tight- Thank you. ^.^
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Post by PonyMama on May 6, 2007 22:01:10 GMT -5
I feel sorry for saying this, but the only way to get them to back off is to tell them to back off. I had to do it with my mom, Gramma, Dad, and inlaws. I told them all to back off and let me and my Hubby do it, adn although they don't like it they have backed off. Mind you I was not the kindest to others when my daughter was born.
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Post by JadeAngel on May 6, 2007 22:03:23 GMT -5
**hugs to Chesh** We love you, no matter what, and if you ever need someone to rant to, I've been told I'm a good listener
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Post by Cameron on May 6, 2007 22:08:03 GMT -5
Wow, *hugs* long weekend eh? If you don't like your dad pestering you I suggest like PM to tell him to ease up. It probably isn't his position to scream at you for what ever the situation is. We don't blame you for never being on, somtimes RL situations are more important thant this imaginary world. We all understand, though we do miss your Pykiin in the RPs we know that you have other things more important to concern you.
Again I hope you have a better week, and that everything works out for the better. *hugs*
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Post by PandaLover on May 6, 2007 22:27:44 GMT -5
You can always rant to us. We'll listen and happily help.
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Post by Raenia on May 7, 2007 14:50:57 GMT -5
If you can't rant here, where can you? We're perfectly happy to listen, and of course we care about you. RL sucks sometimes, and we all want to help you get through it.
Just tell your parents to give you some space, you need to raise your own child. You might consider asking them how they felt/would have felt with their parents interfering all the time.
We miss you and your pykiin, but RL comes first, and we're here to support you.
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Post by PandaLover on May 7, 2007 17:19:49 GMT -5
Wow, Raenia explained it perfectly. And she's right.
And exactly - if you can't rant here, where can you? PI doesn't help much with ranting, I noticed....
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Cheshiresneer
Juvenile Pykiin
~Ahazu; the sly yet strong~
Posts: 235
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Post by Cheshiresneer on May 8, 2007 19:25:18 GMT -5
-snugs everyone- Yea PM, when you are right you're right. I sat down and had a talk with my mom today and she felt really bad cause she had to do it to her mother when she had me. ^.^' Feeling much better thoug, thank you everyone! ^.^
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Post by PonyMama on May 8, 2007 20:35:18 GMT -5
I know that as parents they want to help their children, adn it gets very annoying and toes get stepped on, and believe me, their parents did it to them and we will do it to our children, But they must be told to back off and I am sure our kids will tell us the same. Glad it all got worked out though
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