Heartbroken, shattered,...

[Ebony Adara]

Shall I keep going? Some of you read part of the story on PI already.

Well, my one of my friends on PI (known her since...really since I joined) and we RP a lot.

I contest her ponies and give her tons of gifts...and she gives me gifts back, but not as many as I give her.

She and I have been RPing on a proboard and ever since Highschool started I hadn't been RPing much on there...

One: My eyes hurt terribly from the same old, same old RPing.
Two: I just joined two RP's, one I made and one my friend made. I had fun RPing something new for once since my writers block had gone away.

So, I am prone to read my messages on PI and then quickly dash over to whatever I was doing to see if anyone posted. (Pykiin, Stellars, other adoptables, Roleplays, Art work, ect.ect.ect.)
Then I will totally forget that the message was there until I get a new message.

Now, I have been slacking on answering PM's lately. I delete them...and only read important ones.

And right now...she is making me feel like I don't give her any respect...and just ignore her compelety. I try to reply to her as much as possible, and she was telling me that I hang out with my other friends on PI in a thread and she left alone.

SERIOUSLY?! She could post or something, and then maybe I would talk to her and stuff. How am I supposed to know she is secretly watching? I can't see her. UGH!

*gives up and curls up in corner*

edit:

Also, I'm known as a multi-tasker on PI. I do a lot of things, and get into public things. Really, I love to be involved with PI stuff a lot and not just stay cornered up in PM's.

[PonyMama]

do you know what, sometimes it happens, I told my friend I would phone her 4 days ago, since she wants to talk to me abotu leaving her boyfriend and the father of her children. Do you know what, my life comes first. That is just how it goes, and sometimes I just plain forget.

I also have friends on PI that PM me and I forget for days to send a reply. Do you know what, they don't get mad they understand.

if thisis how she is goign to act when youa re busy then a friend is not something she is let alone a good friend.

if she is feelign ignored it is best to join in the fun, and if she doesn't want to join there join in somewhere else, there are tons of people on PI and millions on the internet.

[Ebony Adara]

Thank you PM *hugs*

I kinda of understand now why I was crying and stuff like that. :/ I was PMSing. ><

[Silentmoon]

I agree with PM, your own life come first. Because if you were sick or something, how could you tend to her if you can't tend to yourself?

Me and my best PI friend know that if neither of us reply, it means we're busy or forget. So seriously, telling you that you're ignoring her is dumb. Because we forget. Atleast she could remind you in a nice way, seriously.

-hugs- No one deserves a friend like that. Nope. We can have more than one friend ^^

[ryuukokoro]

Just remember how it is from her point of view, Ebony. She sends you a message and you never respond. You used to give her all this attention, suddenly you're not. You used to rp with her, now you don't have time. She's probably very hurt and very afraid you don't want to be friends anymore. Try taking a couple free moments to send her a message telling you how much you miss her and wish you had more free time to spend with her, and try to make plans to talk together. That should help.

[PonyMama]

yes Ryuu has a point, I hope all works for you