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Post by PonyMama on Nov 11, 2007 16:10:22 GMT -5
I am a member on Facebook, and I have someone who poked me to see if we know eachother. Well I recognize the name adn some of the people in their contacts, but can not place the name for the life of me. Is bugged, I guess I have to send him a PM.
And I am looing for someone from my past. My first ever boyfriend. Yet the one person I think it is, I can't see the profile pic enough. He is a good friend, or was when we had contact, adn even before I moved to where I am living now I went to visit him and his parnets, although that was when my daughter was a little baby. They wanted to meet her.
So now I have to make a long distance phone call just to find his email.
Ahhhh, sometimes way more trouble then I think it is worth just to stay in contact, but I love my friends so I have to try.
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Post by Cameron on Nov 11, 2007 16:15:20 GMT -5
LOL
PonyMama, I know exactly how you feel. It seems that I can always recognize faces, but I can never put names to them.
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Post by PonyMama on Nov 11, 2007 16:21:37 GMT -5
Well just phoned the one, adn he no longer lives with his paents. Wonderful that she still remembers me though. Hopefully I hear from him soon. He doesn't live that far from me apparently.
I just have this problem that being an Ex and a friend I am not too sure of he has a girlfriend who will take too well to me trying to contact him.
Now must PM the person I recognize the name to, and see who he is. God I feel old, people from my past, like when I was in grade 6 (that was my first boyfriend) and now someone from high school (I am guessing)
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Post by PonyMama on Nov 11, 2007 16:28:16 GMT -5
OMG I figured out who he is
I am crying, he was one of my best friends through a very hard time in my life
Yay
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Post by Cameron on Nov 11, 2007 16:29:28 GMT -5
Aw, that's really good PM!
*hugs*
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Post by PonyMama on Nov 11, 2007 16:30:48 GMT -5
Ok for anyone who might not know. My ex before my hubby, was abusive and controlling. I lost a lot of really good friend's becasue he wouldn't let me see them. So to find them, makes me super happy.
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Post by Cameron on Nov 11, 2007 16:37:09 GMT -5
Thats always a good thing, I'm glad you got out of the relationship. Who knows if you would have allowed him controll yourlife anylonger, we may not be able to talk, and that would be a shame.
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Post by PonyMama on Nov 11, 2007 16:42:09 GMT -5
It is a lot harder then you would think to realize what is going on, but even harder to get out.
My luck was that I met my hubby and told him what was happening, and that I just needed him for strength. We had no intention of hooking up, that was just a bonus. He was there to help me get my life back, make friends and find out that I was worth it.
After three years with my ex, I thought I was horrible and not worth anyone's time. Which of course I do not agree with now. He also told me that if I didn't make him so angry all the time I wouldn't get hit. I know seems stupid that I would fall for that, but when the abuse is mental for 1 1/2 years then it starts physical, there is not much left of me to argue.
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Post by Cameron on Nov 11, 2007 16:49:06 GMT -5
That makes sense, usually with my mom she finds someone and brings him home for us to evaluate. For some reason my brother and I can tell if he's right or not.
I can only imagine being in some kind of relationship like that. Lucky for you, you had your hubby. He seems like the kind of guy that someone could rely on.
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Post by PonyMama on Nov 11, 2007 16:54:11 GMT -5
Yeah, he is. It is hard to be in something like that, but you don't realize it until after.
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Post by PonyMama on Nov 11, 2007 22:00:12 GMT -5
Ok for all to see. This is the first boyfriend I ever had, and a girlfriend of his  (If this pic does not work I will try again) |
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Post by Cameron on Nov 11, 2007 22:24:51 GMT -5
Aw, cute. I'm glad you got back in touch with him, friendship is primarily one of the most important things.
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Post by PonyMama on Nov 11, 2007 22:27:07 GMT -5
We didn't break up with eachother because we didn't get along. We broke up becasue we were young and waned to experience other relationships. He has always been my friend.
He is still a cutie though, I remember why I liked him in the first place.
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Post by Cameron on Nov 11, 2007 22:28:50 GMT -5
That makes sense. I wouldn't want to have to stay with my first boyfriend. Though the thought of having a highschool sweetheart is a dream of mine. As if that would ever happen, or if I may want that further down the road I don't know. It just seems like it would be cute. ^^
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Post by PonyMama on Nov 11, 2007 22:30:45 GMT -5
My mom broke up with her high school sweetheart because they were too young she thought. Well they have re connected and are now married. My step dad is my mom's high school sweetheart.
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